‘Love your neighbour as yourself’ is such a well-known adage that we rarely stop to give it a second thought. Yet Jesus placed a lot of emphasis on this truth at times pushing its meaning beyond what some might consider ‘reasonable limits’ by adding, “I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” This could cause many of us to question the benefit of doing such a thing, especially for those who are against us!
However Franciscan priest Fr. Richard Rohr offers us the beginnings of an answer when he says, “Until we learn to love others as ourselves, it’s difficult to blame broken people who desperately try to affirm themselves when no one else will.”
The truth is we never fully know another person’s situation or reasons for the way they behave. Most of the time what we perceive as a personal attack is actually the manifestation of that person’s own internal struggle. So by choosing to love others as ourselves, especially those who are against us maybe we can begin to break these ongoing cycles of negativity thus allowing all of us to move closer to a state of inner healing.
“Love your neighbour as yourself.”
Matthew 22:39
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